Don't you just hate it when someone close to you, just uses you? I mean, I have this "friend" and she used me to get close to some friends of mine. What I mean is that, I have some close male friends and she tried to get close to them through me. At first I didn't realise it, but when my male friends told me, I then realised that they weren't lying. What I had realised was that most of the guys I had introduced her to, she told me after that she liked them. I thought it was one of her "mini crushes" but after awhile it got to an extent that my male friends told me that they didn't like her. Because she tried to "catch up" with them without me knowing.
But it didn't happen on one occasion. NO. It happened on numerous occasions. For example during one of the school annual events, there was this guy who liked me (who I only saw was a friend) and was trying to hang out with me that day, but my "friend" tried to get in between us. What she did was, each time she saw me and him together, she'll come in between us and start to flirt with him in front of me. With this, I immediately walked away from him and her. Then after awhile, he found me and we started to chat and hang out. But then she'll come back again. So throughout that day, it was like the game cat and mouse. He was trying to chase me not her and she was trying to chase him. Then when the day was over, she told me that she was trying to ask him out again (cause they both gone out with each other 3 times but it never worked out) and she asked me to ask him if he wanted to get back with her again because she couldn't all day.
It happened again, the following year. But this time, a different guy that I was hanging out with didn't have a crush on me. But the funny thing was, she has been flirting with him throughout the whole year and he knew. So he pretended that he didn't know and whenever we had to do partner type activities, he always would be my partner. Because he knew that if he didn't then she would. =P
So anyways, after 2 years; thinking that she was a good friend, she turned out to be a friend that uses you to get through something else. In this case, trying to get between me and my male friends and trying to be in a relationship with them through me. After graduation, me and her lost contact with each other. We occasionally meet at the shops, but I wouldn't consider her as a friend.
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